Navigating the Layers of Secondary Losses

About the Episode

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Greer and Simonie explore the concept of secondary losses, the unexpected changes that follow the death of a loved one. Beyond the immediate grief, these losses—like the loss of future dreams, financial security, and support systems—can quietly reshape your life.

Greer and Simonie share personal stories about the challenges they faced, from losing the vision of a shared future to navigating the sudden burden of financial responsibilities. They also touch on how a profound loss can shift your identity as a parent or spouse, and shatter hopes for the future, adding new layers of grief. These secondary losses can feel overwhelming, whether it’s the loss of your emotional rock or your sense of self.

The hosts offer guidance on recognizing and coping with these layered losses. They encourage listeners to lean on support systems, rebuild dreams, and focus on emotional well-being. Whether you’ve lost a spouse, a child, a friend, or even a job, this conversation reminds us that secondary losses deserve recognition and healing.  

Intro: Grief & Grit

Barbara Leahy

Leadership Consultant/Facilitator/Coach

For three decades, Barbara has been a respected leader in the leadership development field. Throughout her adult life, she has embarked on a journey of self-discovery that has shaped both her personal and professional growth. She finds great satisfaction in helping clients unlock their potential and become the best versions of themselves. As a mother, wife, and business owner, Barbara has embraced opportunities for personal and professional growth, continuously expanding her knowledge and sharing her insights with others. Tapping into her creative side, she currently enjoys creating jewelry, and can be found pursuing new skills through various classes, and fostering heartfelt connections with friends.